Learn to Relax: Embracing Calmness in Your Life

Problems Relaxing?

Today, I want to be your guide on a journey to relaxation. In our fast-paced world, there is so much stress and anxiety around us. I have seen people struggling with headaches, back pain, sleepless nights and more, all because they haven’t learned how to relax.

I believe that the art of relaxation has become more vital than ever. As an experienced hypnotherapist, counsellor, and coach, I’ve witnessed first-hand the transformative power of true relaxation, so I want to share some valuable tips with you today.

Let’s explore why learning to relax isn’t just a luxury—it’s a necessity.

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Start to relax. Contact Linda to arrange your first free consultation.

Why is Relaxation Important?

Relaxation goes beyond mere physical rest. It’s not just relaxing in a comfy chair after a hard day’s work or sleeping well at night. It’s a holistic process that rejuvenates both your body and mind. It can involve one or all of your senses, such as listening to music, humming, massage, eating excellent food in a social situation or breathing in fresh air.

Relaxation techniques can lower blood pressure, reduce muscle tension, and improve concentration. It also helps you to manage stress, cope with life, and reduce stress-related ill health such as heart disease, infections, and some skin conditions. Tense muscles also make pain much worse.

But relaxation’s benefits are much more than stress reduction as, mentally, relaxation techniques have been linked to reduced symptoms of anxiety and depression. Relaxation is also necessary to reduce anger and irritability, as the mind and body must be balanced.

By allowing your mind to rest, you’re not just taking a break but empowering it to function at its best.

Why do people find it difficult to relax?

Sometimes, it is easy for other people to tell you to relax, but it’s hard for you to do. That’s because you don’t recognise the effects of not relaxing or haven’t learnt how to relax correctly yet.

Relaxation helps your mind and body to achieve its peak performance levels. The positive impacts of relaxation include:

  • The ability to sleep better.
  • Pain management
  • A better memory
  • Better weight management
  • Fewer accidents
  • Allowing you to achieve your full potential.
  • It feels good.

Physical vs Mental Relaxation

Physical relaxation might involve techniques like deep breathing, yoga, or a simple park walk. On the other hand, mental relaxation often requires a bit more effort, as it involves calming the mind’s endless chatter. Meditation, mindfulness, and guided imagery are popular methods for achieving mental serenity.

The Holistic Benefits of Relaxation

Relaxation isn’t just about feeling good in the moment. Its benefits extend into various aspects of life. For instance, a relaxed mind is more creative and better at problem-solving. Physically, a relaxed body can recover from stress faster, helping to prevent chronic stress-related conditions.

Harnessing Hypnotherapy for Relaxation

As a hypnotherapist, I’ve seen incredible results when individuals embrace hypnotherapy for relaxation. One way hypnotherapy works is by guiding you into deep relaxation, where your mind becomes more open to positive suggestions. This state, often described as trance-like, allows you to explore and resolve underlying stressors in a safe, controlled environment.
(NB: You need not be physically relaxed to enter hypnosis although we often help you to become physically relaxed as it feels good).

The benefits of hypnotherapy for relaxation are well-documented. According to a meta-analysis by Valentine et al. (2019), 79-84% of people who had hypnotherapy for anxiety showed a more significant reduction in anxiety symptoms compared to the control groups. Hypnotherapy is a powerful tool that combines the physical and mental aspects of relaxation, offering a comprehensive approach to wellness.

How Can You Start Relaxing Today?

Embarking on your relaxation journey can begin with small, simple steps. Here are a few techniques you might try:

Eat a balanced diet: Focus on reducing caffeine in coffee and cola drinks.

Start an enjoyable hobby: You might take up painting and drawing, pottery or jigsaw puzzles.

Deep Breathing: This is a quick way to reduce stress. There are many different techniques, so try them to find out what suits you best. For example, Inhale deeply for a count of four, hold for four and exhale for four.

Mindfulness Meditation: Spend a few minutes each day just being present. Focus on your breath or the sensations in your body. The aim is to keep your mind in the present and notice if it wanders to something else.

Engage in Physical Activities: Whether it’s yoga, a brisk walk, or dancing, moving your body can help release pent-up tension.

Hypnotherapy: For a deeper exploration of relaxation, consider hypnotherapy. It’s a pathway to understanding and managing your stressors effectively.

Over the years, I have noticed that people who come to see me for one issue often learn to relax, so another problem is often helped. For example, someone may seek hypnotherapy for public speaking and then find that their chronic backache goes.

Final Thoughts

So, even if you have no significant problems now that you need to address, learning to relax is an investment in your overall well-being. By embracing relaxation techniques, you’re not just improving your current state of mind but equipping yourself with a healthier, more fulfilled life.

As someone dedicated to helping others find their path to relaxation, I invite you to explore this journey further. Feel free to reach out for a session if you want personalised guidance. Book a free initial consultation first and find out how I work. Together, we can uncover the relaxation techniques that work best for you, helping you to live a more balanced and serene life. Alternatively, sign up for my newsletter and get a free copy of a relaxation audio recording to listen to at home.

Remember, relaxation isn’t just a pause; it’s a practice. And it can help you to change your life.


Valentine KE, Milling LS, Clark LJ, Moriarty CL. THE EFFICACY OF HYPNOSIS AS A TREATMENT FOR ANXIETY: A META-ANALYSIS. Int J Clin Exp Hypn. 2019 Jul-Sep;67(3):336-363. doi: 10.1080/00207144.2019.1613863. PMID: 31251710.

Learn to Relax with hypnotherapy

Online Relaxation Sessions

If other people are telling you to relax, isn’t it time that you found a way to do it in the comfort of your own home? Linda’s relaxation programmes can be delivered online via webcam and are therefore available in most countries.

Find out how relaxation can help you.

Contact Linda today.

Free 30 Minute Consultation

Start to relax. Contact Linda to arrange your first free consultation.

Hypnotherapy Prices

NB All payments to be made online before the session or programme or on the day only if in person in my office.

How to Book

Unlike some therapists, I want to make sure you get the right therapy before you buy.
I offer a free 30-minute consultation so we can get to know each other first.

Hypnotherapy Sessions at My Practice

If you live in or around the Bournemouth area, you may prefer to visit my practice for your hypnotherapy sessions.

I provide a safe, relaxing and calm environment where we can start to overcome your anxiety. The practice is easy to find, and plenty of free parking is available, as well as being on local bus routes.

However, your first free consultation will always be online, and many of my clients find this works better for them.

Online Hypnotherapy

Online hypnotherapy is worth considering, especially if you find it hard to travel or live outside the Bournemouth area.

I have been trained in providing online hypnotherapy and have clients from around the world. Providing you have access to a private internet connection and webcam; there is no reason why this wouldn't work for you.

Online hypnosis has many benefits, which include cost-effectiveness, comfort and practicality. 

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